Why does my boyfriend make plans with me and then change them for his convenience?
He’ll tell me we’ll do something then all of a sudden hes spending the night w/ his friend and say “oh well maybe this day will work” or change the time & plan completely. I hate when plans change so what do I do to cope with this or deal with it?
November 28th, 2010 at 2:49 am
maybe your his booty call.
November 28th, 2010 at 3:26 am
Tell him how you feel, this is how a good relationship succeeds by being able to talk about your feelings, and caring enough to listen to each other.
November 28th, 2010 at 3:39 am
I don’t like to sound harsh, but it seems to me that he does this due to lack of respect for you.
Sounds like he’s treating you like a door mat! You need to let him know that it’s not okay. If it happened once it’d be different, but if it happens too often, I’d raise some Cain with him!
November 28th, 2010 at 4:14 am
Don’t be available anymore. He is not changing plans, he is blowing you off but trying to disguise it.
November 28th, 2010 at 5:08 am
okkk
jst tell u bf tell me when u fixed b4 an hour
November 28th, 2010 at 5:57 am
He feels he has you wrapped around his little finger. What I feel is happening is after making plans with you he gets a better offer. I would do to him like he does to you and see how he likes it. I bet it might help him see the light.
April 13th, 2012 at 8:08 am
I could not refrain from commenting. Wonderfully composed!